The first step in helping abused or neglected children is learning to recognize the signs of child abuse and neglect. The presence of a single sign does not mean that child maltreatment is occurring in a family, but a closer look at the situation may be warranted when
these signs appear repeatedly on in combination.
The following signs may signal the presence of neglect.
The Child:
- Is frequently absent from school
- Begs or steals food or money
- Lacks needed medical or dental care, immunizations or glasses
- Is consistently dirty and has severe body odor
- Lacks sufficient clothing for the weather
- Abuses alcohol or other drugs
- States that there is no one at home to provide care
The Parent or other adult Caregiver:
- Appears to be indifferent to the child
- Seems apathetic or depressed
- Behaves irrationally or in a bizarre manner
- Is abusing alcohol or other drugs
The above list may not be all the signs of neglect. It is important to pay attention to other behaviors that may seem unusual or concerning.
The following signs may signal the presence of Emotional Maltreatment
The Child:
- Shows extremes in behavior, such as overly compliant or demanding behavior, extreme passivity or aggression
- Is either inappropriately adult or inappropriately infantile
- Is delayed in physical or emotional development
- Has attempted suicide
- Reports a lack of attachment to the parent
The Parent or other adult Caregiver:
- Constantly blames, belittles or berates the child
- Is unconcerned about the child and refuses to consider offers of help for the child’s problems
- Overtly rejects the child
Sometimes cultural values, the standards of care in the c
ommunity and poverty may contribute to maltreatment, indicating the family is in need of information or assistance. When a family fails to use information and resources, and the child’s health or safety is at risk, then child welfare intervention may be required.