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Facebook- How to Keep My Child Safe

Facebook Statistics

facebook-safety-for-teensWith over 1.5 Billion users worldwide, Facebook is by far the most used social media site currently on the Internet.   In fact, Facebook has doubled its users in the last five years.   The use of social media is a daily part of many adults and children’s lives.

  • 1 billion people use Facebook daily worldwide
  • 20 minutes is the average session time per site visit
  • 56% of US citizens are on Facebook
  • 64% of teens on the Internet use Facebook
  • the average teenager has 300 friends on Facebook
  • Since users must be 13 to join, no data is available for the 12 and under user group but some research has reported 29% of youth aged 6-12 have an account on one of the major social media sites.

Facebook and Kids

Despite a legal requirement that kids must be 13 or older to sign up for Facebook, many younger children are using the service.  Younger kids slip by unnoticed through falsifying their age.

Facebook is aware of their young audience, and the site has rolled out privacy settings for the under-18 set.  Users between the ages of 13 and 17 get a slightly different experience.

  1. Minors do not have public search listings, meaning their accounts cannot be found on general search engines outside of Facebook.
  2. The ‘Everyone’ setting is not quite as open for minors as for adults.  If a minor’s privacy settings are set to ‘Everyone,’ that includes only friends, friends of friends and people within the child’s verified school or work network.
  3. However, this ‘Everyone’ setting still allows adults to search for minors by name and send them friend requests (and vice versa).
  4. Also, only people within a minor’s ‘Friends of Friends’ network can message them.
  5. Finally, minors can share their location thru ‘Places’ only with people on their Friends List regardless of the privacy setting.

Protecting my child’s personal information

Even with Facebook’s privacy settings for minors, a child’s personal information is still widely on display.  A young person’s Facebook account is just the beginning of their online footprint, and they need to take that fact seriously since it can affect their reputation today and for years to come. It is becoming common for college acceptance practices and employers to check for social media accounts to gather additional information about the person they are looking to accept to a school or job.

“Facebook itself advises parents to sit down with their kids and talk about the importance of protecting one’s online identity.  Maintaining open communication with your children is the key to understanding exactly how they’re using Facebook.”Facebook

What can I do as a parent?

If you have a Facebook profile, consider sending your child a friend request.  It will remind your child of your own online presence.  If you don’t have an account on Facebook, ask your child to show you their profile.  It helps to familiarize yourself as much as possible with the site’s privacy controls and other settings.

It is also a good idea to take a look at your child’s photos and wall posts to make sure they are appropriate. Remind your child that the Internet in general is not a kids-only zone and that adults can see what’s on their profile as well.  Maintaining an appropriate online presence as a teenager will help your child build a respectable online footprint.  Remember:  The Internet never forgets.

Go over Facebook’s privacy settings with your child and show them how to active the highest level of security, ‘Friends Only.’  Emphasize that Facebook is a place for friends and not strangers.

internet safety thoughtsRemind your child to be mindful of what they post in their status updates, since oversharing online can lead to consequences in the real world.

Another fact to consider is that a person can have more than one profile on Facebook.  Some kids create a parent-friendly account and yet another for their friends.  If they show you a profile that seem skimpy on content, that could be a red flag.

Finally, there are a number of PC and Web-monitoring tools on the market that monitor online behavior either thru an online service or software that can be downloaded to your child’s mobile device.

Additional resources can be accessed with this helpful guide.

Facebook Parent Guide

Cyber-Safety Tips for Parents

 

Resources

  • What to DO if you Suspect a Child is Being Abused
  • Keeping your Child Safe
    • Domestic Violence and Kids
  • Resource Guide for Working with Adolescents
  • Reading Resources
  • Internet Safety
    • Social Media Safety
    • Facebook- How to Keep My Child Safe
    • Instagram- How to Keep My Child Safe
    • Snapchat- How to Keep My Child Safe
    • Abbreviations and Text Terms
    • Cyberbullying & Sextortion

Mercer County CAC

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  • Myths and Facts About Child Abuse and Neglect
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  • Preventing Neglect
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  • Recognize the Signs of Abuse and Neglect
  • Recognize the Signs of Neglect and Emotional Maltreatment
  • Recognize the Signs of Physical Abuse
  • Recognize the Signs of Sexual Abuse
  • Reporting Neglect
  • Reporting Physical Abuse
  • Reporting Sexual Abuse
  • Resource Guide for Working with Adolescents
  • Resources
  • Responding to Neglect
  • Responding to Physical Abuse
  • Responding to Sexual Abuse
  • Snapchat- How to Keep My Child Safe
  • Social Media Safety
  • Talking To Your Children About Sexuality
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  • What is Child Abuse and Neglect?
  • What is Child Neglect?
  • What is Child Physical Abuse?
  • What is Child Sexual Abuse?
  • What to DO if you Suspect a Child is Being Abused
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